The negative Effects towards Malaysian Couple.
I. Introduction
Having a blast wedding of the year would be
the dream of every couple in Malaysia, however, if too much concern being put
on the budget of the wedding rather than the budget of the life after marriage
it will eventually be a burden to the Malaysian couple in their future life.
II. Body
A. Being married with the grand way has
become the trend to the all couple because for them the event can provide
comfort to the guest.
1. Certainly, the wedding of the year will
held at the most comfortable venue such as the hall and the hotel.
a. There, it is provide with lots of
facilities like air-conditioner and lots of table so that the guest will do not
take much time to get their place. They do not need to wait for their turn
until the other guest finish their food.
b. This will ensure that the ceremony will
run smoothly and give satisfaction to the guess and the couple.
c. Sweeney
(2012) found that wedding ceremony is the highest gladness in the world. So, the
wedding of the year is the only chance for the couple to express their love and
happiness.
2. This event can also help to strengthen the
bonding of the family members.
a. This is because when the wedding is placed
in the comfortable condition, the couple can invite all their family and
relatives without have to worry anything.
b. They can happily take this chance to gather
all their family members and use this opportunity to spend their time together
after not meet for a long time.
c. Based on researcher observation, this
event can help them to strengthen the bonding when they help each other to
succeed this event and share their happiness together.
B. While wedding of the year is the major
concern among the Malaysian couple, it causes people to delay their marriage.
1. This is because they do not have sufficient money for their
wedding as they always imagine doing the wedding of the year event.
a. They were worried that they will be humiliated by other people because
they cannot afford to do the wedding of the year. This will make them fear to be
married and make them to delay their marriage.
b. Women, Family and Community Development Ministry had revealed that
25-year-old number of Malaysian that never married is as many as 2.5 million
persons or 16.7 percent from the population in our country.
2.
They also too fussy to choose their
partner in their life.
a.
For the women that are materialistic, they
only want to wed with the men who are prosperous so that they can have the
wedding of the year, while the men do not have enough courageous to propose
this women.
b.
This is proven by the phenomenon of the
men who are not married yet because of financial factor while women who are
unwed because they do not found the suitable candidates to be their husband (Najihahtussalehah,
2012).
C.
It will cause the large number of wastage.
1. The person who has dream to have the wedding of the
year will spend lots of money just to prepare for their grand wedding.
a. Since they have a dream to have the wedding of the
year, they are enthusiastic to spend lots of money for their wedding as long as
their dream become true and everyone will be stunned with them. For instance,
they are willing to spend almost thousand ringgit just for their wedding clothes.
b. A study by Norbahyah (2012) found that
most of the couples will expend lots of cost for their wedding ceremony and it
will cause wastage. The wedding event supposes to be ordinary and do not burden
any couples and also do not waste plenty of money.
2.
In fact, they will also do something ridiculous that
will ruin their future life.
a.
Sometimes they are very obsess with the wedding of the
year and do not think rationally their deed that will affect them negatively
after marriage.
b.
Some
of them disposed to disregard the law of the country because of too obsess with
this wedding.
c. According
to Berita Harian (2012), there have a case reported that a woman who has
stealing RM 840,000 for her wedding ceremony.
D. Instead, the wedding of the year caused Malaysians suffering from various diseases.
1. When the wedding of the year was held, the guests were
served with variety of food.
a. Rohami (2011) notes that their intention to feast guest as much as possible in the
beginning, unfortunately bring the diseases to the guest.
b. The effect of too much food that was served to the guest caused Malaysians suffering from various diseases such as
obesity and diabetes.
2. Additionally, this is caused by over-eating and the foods have no nutrient.
a. The foods that were served in the event
have no nutrient that is balanced, needed by food pyramid such as carbohydrates
and proteins.
b. As we know, Malaysian foods contain oil in
their ingredient such as ‘nasi briayani’ and ‘nasi minyak’. Moreover, the dye in the food also will caused
diseases to the Malaysian.
c. “Malaysians die because of over-eating,
while the other country’s people die because of starvation” (Rohami, 2011)
III. Conclusion
Wedding
of the year is certainly not the propaganda for us to be pretentious. It has
numerous benefits. Nevertheless, it is fair enough with the ordinary event so
that we will not have to face with any barrier in the future.
